SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY & EMBODIED LEADERSHIP FOR MEN
Build the Sexual Confidence, Control, and Presence You Were Never Taught.
I help men develop sexual self-mastery, deeper presence, and the ability to lead intimate experiences with confidence & clarity – so sex becomes something you enjoy, not something you manage.
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You Are Not Broken
Maybe you finish sooner than you want, lose erections under pressure, struggle to stay present, or find it hard to express and lead what you desire.
Or maybe nothing is dramatically “wrong” at all – you just know there’s far more depth, pleasure, and connection available to you than you’re experiencing now.
Most men were never given the education or practice needed to understand their bodies, regulate arousal, and create the sex they actually want. These aren’t fixed character flaws. They’re trainable capacities.
Two Paths Into the Work
The paths overlap, but each requires a different kind of practice.
1 – Sexual Self-Mastery
Develop greater skill, choice, and confidence within your own body.
- Build ejaculatory choice
- Support stronger, more reliable erections
- Reduce performance anxiety
- Expand your capacity for full-body pleasure
Structured online practice you can complete from home, in my 10-week Orgasmic Mastery Course.
NEXT LIVE COHORT · OCTOBER 2026
2 – Embodied Sexual Leadership
Develop the capacities required to lead sexual experiences with confidence and care.
- Learn to lead with confidence, presence and attunement
- Communicate desire more clearly
- Create healthy polarity and depth
- Learn to ravish your partner in the way they want
Immersive, in-person practice with other men, in my 5-day retreat: Embodied Sexual Leadership Training.
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The Six Domains of Sexual Mastery
Sex is never just about sex. Your experience is shaped by the body, mind, nervous system, habits, skills, and relationships you bring into it. That’s why my work is organized around six interdependent domains, not isolated techniques.
1 · Body
Strength, stamina, pelvic health, and the physical capacity to support pleasure.
2 · Mind & Emotions
Presence, self-trust, and a healthier relationship with desire and shame.
3 · Lifestyle & Environment
The sleep, movement, diet and daily habits that quietly shape your sex life.
4 · Nervous System & Capacity
The ability to stay present and open as pleasure and intensity rise.
5 · Sexual Skills & Energy
Breath, movement, arousal control, and working skillfully with sexual energy.
6 · Sexual Leadership & Connection
The confidence to initiate, attune, and lead with clarity and care.
Experience & Impact
Years Coaching & Educating Men Full Time
Sex Upgraded Podcast Episodes
Men Taught, Coached or Trained
Youtube Subscribers
48.9% Increase
Men who complete my Orgasmic Mastery Course report a 48.9% increase in sexual confidence (details of the data gathering methodology shared on the course page).
“Now I’m able to be 100% confident day in and day out around sexuality. Whether it’s around pleasuring myself, sharing pleasure with my partner, or anywhere in between, I know now with confidence that I have ALL the tools required to approach any scenario with ease and with happiness…”
– Matthew, an OMC Participant
42% Increase
Men who attended my 5-Day Sexual Leadership Retreat reported an overall 42% increase in sexual leadership capacity, and statistically significant improvements in all measured capacities. You can read the results & methodology here.
“This was such an epic experience that will be with me for the rest of my life! Not only the concepts we learned, but the physical change that I feel in my body – I sense myself differently, more embodied more grounded and more confident… …I feel so much more equipped to lead not only in sexual life, but across the board.”
– K, a Leadership Training Participant
Meet Taylor
I Didn’t Enter This Work Because Sex Came Easily to Me
For years my own sex life felt like a disaster – premature ejaculation, unreliable erections, shame, and performance anxiety. I really believed something was wrong with me.
It wasn’t. Learning to understand and work with my body changed my life, and that practice grew into years of studying sexuality, somatics, nervous-system work, movement, and leadership – and eventually into the work I now teach.
Ready to Build Greater Sexual Confidence, Control & Self-Trust?
The Orgasmic Mastery Course is my 10-week online training for men who want greater ejaculation control, more reliable erections, expanded full-body pleasure, and grounded, revitalizing confidence. You move through the practices in your own life, guided by me, alongside a group of committed men.
Enrollment opens September 2026.
Inside, You’ll Build the Ability to:
- Last as long as you want during sex
- Enjoy stronger, more reliable erections
- Access expanded, full-body orgasmic pleasure
- Feel the confidence of a man who trusts his body
Learn With Me for Free
Sex Upgraded Podcast
Long-form conversations on sexuality, relationships, embodiment, healing, and leadership.
My Youtube Channel
Practical education & how-to guides on ejaculation control, sexual energy, integrative semen retention, embodied confidence and more…
Written Articles
Detailed written resources for men who want to understand their bodies, habits, and sexual lives.
And Explore My Two Free Guides:
1. Free Ejaculation Control Training
A video training & written guide that gives you an action plan to start lasting longer during sex – tonight.
2. Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
Learn the art of integrative semen retention through 7 days of guided instruction & practice.